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So, You Bought a House with Your Boyfriend

Underwood Law Firm, P.C.
Artwork illustration of a house with 2 persons splitting up with a broken heart.

As a millennial, we’ve faced financial challenges different from all those before us. We graduated college with more debt into the harsh job market of the Great Recession and then have had to compete during one of the hottest housing markets ever. So, many of us have had to do things differently.

We’re having children later, getting married later, and maybe buying real estate before getting married. What happens, then, when you buy a property with someone that you’ve decided is not going to be part of your long-term plans, and now you cannot agree on what to do with it?

You’ve fought, you’ve negotiated, and now you just want to move on.

An Introduction to Partition Actions

Family law is for married people, and both joint tenants have to agree to list a house for sale. One of you wants to buy the other’s share, but neither has the financing to make it happen. What are you supposed to do? In situations like these, any title owner of the property can ask a court to force a sale of property using a legal term known as a “partition” action.

Like the name, partition actions traditionally were used to divide the property into “parts” when two or more owners could not agree on how to proceed. Under modern versions of the law, however, a party can “partition” a property by sale when the property is not suitable for division into separate pieces of property the way that a farm may be.

How Does a Partition Work?

When co-owners of a property cannot agree on what to do with a property, any title owner can file a lawsuit seeking partition of the property by asking the court to force a sale of the property.

In these circumstances, the court generally inquires only whether the party asking for a sale is the sole owner and whether the party bringing the lawsuit has named all parties interested in the property.

Next, the Court appoints a partition referee who offers it for sale.

Then, once the property is sold, the Court apportions the proceeds of the sale to the parties according to their respective interests.

Last, the Court may also examine whether one party has contributed more to the property than another party, for example, by paying more of the mortgage or paying more than their share for improvements to the property. If one party has done so, then the court may adjust the proceeds that rightfully belong to the other party in accordance with the appropriate share of the contributions.

After all, is said and done, and the house is sold and the proceeds distributed, each party is free to go their own separate way and move on to the next phase of their lives. Go here to get more details.

Eli Underwood Eli Underwood

Founder & Managing Attorney
Elijah “Eli” Underwood is the founder and managing attorney of Underwood Law Firm, P.C., a California law firm focused on partition actions and real estate co-ownership disputes.
Since founding Underwood Law Firm in 2021, Eli has built a practice dedicated to helping property owners navigate complex disputes involving jointly owned real estate. The firm has handled more than 500 partition matters throughout California, giving Eli extensive experience in this highly specialized area of real estate law.
Eli has practiced law in California since 2009 and brings the perspective of both an experienced litigator and a real estate investor. His litigation experience includes jury and bench trial victories, representation of high-profile clients, including members of Congress, and legal work that has contributed to developments in California law.
Recognized for his knowledge of partition and co-ownership law, Eli serves on the Executive Committee of the California Lawyers Association Real Property Law Section. He is also an instructor on Partitions and Co-Ownership Relationships for the California Association of REALTORS® and regularly speaks to legal and professional organizations on partition law and real estate disputes.
Eli earned his J.D. from UC Hastings College of the Law, now UC Law San Francisco, in 2009 and his B.A. from UC Santa Barbara in 2005. During law school, he served on the board of the Negotiation Team and competed in national and international negotiation competitions.
His legal insight has been featured in television and print media, and he continues to contribute to the legal community through education, speaking engagements, and professional leadership.
Education
J.D., UC Hastings College of the Law (UC Law San Francisco), 2009
B.A., University of California, Santa Barbara, 2005
Bar Admission
State Bar of California, 2009
Professional Leadership & Education
Executive Committee, California Lawyers Association Real Property Law Section
Instructor, Partitions and Co-Ownership Relationships, California Association of REALTORS®
Speaker and educator on California partition and real estate co-ownership law

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